She handed over the merit list to her dad.
Evreyone was asking ,why doesn’t she seem to be the happiest after cracking such a prestigious exam .
No one knew except herself and her father that
She fullfilled his dream and killed her own.
And then we say parents are selfless.
Are they ?? Really??
If that’s so, then why do they keep counting their sacrifices in our bringing up .
I just don’t doubt on their love .
I also know that they can never have bad intentions for us.
Then why do they give us lives and snatch away our right to live it our own way.
Why do they keep judging us constantly on the basis of our choices.
And how come our choices decides that how much we love and value them.
Our dreams if unfortunately don’t match with what they have been planning even before we have taken birth .
Then we are useless and inobdient.
We aren’t as talented all those sharma ji’s son or daughter.
And we put their head down in society.
And if you are a living being ,you might get to fall in love.
Beware ,you are going to attempt one of biggest sin if you deny the guy/girl ,your parents have choosen for you.
And worst thing you will do is tell them that you have choosen the one you wanted to marry.
All these stuff hurt me sometimes badly because to the one we look upto.
They look upto random people and society over their own kids sometimes
I don’t know what kind of parent ,I would be.
But there are things , I will execute for sure:
- My kids will always be allowed to question me on my desicions for them and if required can tell me to change it
- They can get married when they would want and with whom they choose.
- I will definitely make sure that they live their dreams instead of fullfilling mine.
- And last but not the least ,I will never put them under pressure of “what I did for them”.